How to Negotiate
Practical negotiation techniques for better outcomes
⚡Quick Answer
Research your worth. Let them anchor first if possible. Focus on underlying interests, not positions. Use silence. Have alternatives.
Step-by-Step Guide
Know Your Worth
Research thoroughly. For salary: check Glassdoor, Levels.fyi, talk to peers. Know the market rate before negotiating.
Let Them Go First (Usually)
Try to get the other side to name a number first. Once anchored, all negotiation revolves around that number.
Focus on Interests, Not Positions
Understand why they want what they want. Find creative solutions that satisfy both parties' underlying needs.
Use Silence and Patience
After stating your position, stop talking. Silence is uncomfortable - they may fill it with concessions. Never accept first offer.
Frequently Asked Questions
When should I negotiate salary?
After receiving an offer, before accepting. Also: during reviews, after big wins, when taking new responsibilities.
What if they say the offer is final?
It rarely is. Ask: 'Is there any flexibility on..?' Try negotiating other benefits: vacation, signing bonus, remote work.
How do I negotiate without being pushy?
Be collaborative, not combative. Express enthusiasm for the opportunity. Use 'we' language. Ask questions, don't demand.